✨ anxious babes unite! ✨ choose better, healthier partners ✨ date more calmly, so you can create the best relationship of your life ✨ fix your "picker" ✨

Stop settling for situationships & deadbeat dates 💔

—so you can find the actual love of your life instead 💖

Helping anxious attachers who are single and looking stop over-working for love, tend their nervous system, and choose dream partners instead of deadbeats 💖

Start dating like a MFin' dreamboat

Stop settling for situationships & deadbeat dates

—so you can find the actual love of your life instead

Even if you're anxious, insecure, or have a history of making "bad picks"—I've got you.

Start dating like a MFin' dreamboat

This you?

You see yourself as anxiously attached or insecure when it comes to dating, and you're ready to show up more securely...if only you knew what to do.

You want to stop getting so easily attached to people who won't commit or show up for you, so you actually have space for someone who will.

You want dating to take less effort instead of being exhausting. You've always worked so hard to prove your worth to dates, but have ended up with people who didn't reciprocate.

You want to trust that being yourself and owning your quirks, needs, and feelings will filter in the right people.

You're ready to learn how to put the energy you usually give to others into yourself, so you can recalibrate how you date, and attract dates who are excited to invest in you.

You want to believe love is possible for you, but tbh, you're done with getting ghosted by people who seemed really into you and then slow faded (while you got more and more anxious 💔).

if you're ready to do the work to date more securely, I've got you, babe.

Hi, I'm Zinta!

I used to be you——trying to convince people I was worth dating by hiding my needs and feelings, crossing my own boundaries, and taking all the responsibility for making a relationship go somewhere.

Anxiety-spiralling when someone took their sweet time responding to a text, then triple-texting them when their silence started to feel like too much.💔

TL;DR—I've been there. So I get how frustrating it is to be in this pattern, and how hard it feels to change it. This is why I founded Sweet Spot Dating Lab—to help you become more secure faster, with less shame and self-doubt.

As a psychotherapist, I’ve spent years understanding anxious attachment and helping folks move out of its grip so they can build truly secure relationships. In my coaching, I blend attachment work with practical dating skills, transformative exercises, and nervous system regulation to help you date better, choose healthier partners, and become the secure babe you long to be.

Learn more about my cringe-y origin story

if you're ready to do the work to date more securely, I've got you, babe.

Hi, I'm Zinta!

**I used to be you——trying to convince people I was worth dating by hiding my needs and feelings, and taking all the responsibility for making a relationship go somewhere.**

Anxiety-spiralling when someone took their sweet time responding to a text, then triple-texting them when their silence started to feel like too much.

TL;DR—I've been there. So I get how frustrating it is to be in this pattern, and how hard it feels to change it. This is why I founded Sweet Spot Dating Lab—to help you become more secure faster, with less shame and self-doubt.

As a psychotherapist, I’ve spent years understanding anxious attachment and helping folks move out of its grip so they can build truly secure relationships. In my coaching, I blend attachment work with practical dating skills, transformative exercises, and nervous system regulation to help you date better, choose healthier partners, and become the secure babe you long to be.

Read my cringe-y origin story

✨ offerings ✨

1-on-1 Mentorship

If you love personal attention.

We'll cover the Sweet Spot Dating Method, start healing the wounds that are keeping you insecure, and implement nervous system regulation.

🛥️ Date like a

Dreamboat 🛥️

Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.

You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life by:

fixing your "picker"
cutting through the superficial hype of a hot date

️‍🔥Hot Boundaries🔥

Coming soon.

Boundaries for ~~good~~ anxious folks.

You learned to earn love and approval by dimming your light, making yourself smaller, and pretending you don't have needs or desires.

And that's exactly why you keep ending up anxious and disappointed when your partner or date treats you like sh*t, doesn't put in half the effort you do, or crosses your boundaries (you know, the ones you wish you could stand up for).

But don't worry—you can whip your boundaries (and love life) into shape if you sign up for 🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥, stat!

🛥️ Date like a

Dreamboat 🛥️

Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.

You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life.

️‍🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥

Mini-course coming soon.

Boundaries for ~~good~~ anxious girls, boys, and everyone else.

You learned to earn love and approval by dimming your light, making yourself smaller, and pretending you don't have needs or desires.

But don't worry—you can whip your boundaries (and love life) into shape if you sign up for 🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥, stat!

Love Notes

a.k.a. the blog

Start here if you have no idea how you ended up here, with no clue how to date without getting chewed up and spit out by the apps and/or all the creeps out there.Let this be the start of a beautiful relationship.