✨ anxious babes unite! ✨ choose better, healthier partners ✨ date more calmly, so you can create the best relationship of your life ✨ fix your "picker" ✨
Group Program
Group Program
Date like a MFin' Dreamboat 🛥️
Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.
You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life.
learn what actually matters in a dream relationship
unlearning your attraction to future-fakers, breadcrumbs, and emotional roller coasters
finding the sweet spot of energy to put into dating
learn how to actually set and hold healthy dating boundaries
let me guess:
You want to be in a relationship so badly that you ignore red flags and your gut-churning anxiety when something feels off.
You think you need to work hard to earn love and commitment. (Sometimes you're so exhausted you wonder why your date won't just choose you already!)
When someone seems interested in you, you dive in headfirst and do all you can to "make it work"—even if they're barely pulling their weight.
You've been burned by bad relationships or dates so many times that living in a cabin with 14 cats sounds pretty appealing at this point, but you're not ready to give up on love just yet.
I know exactly how this feels — because I’ve lived it.
The late-night spirals. The overthinking. The breadcrumb chases that leave you emotionally hungover.
But you don’t have to stay stuck in that cycle.
You can date with confidence — even if anxiety and insecurity have ruled your love life for years.
Here's the truth:
The over-functioning, over-analyzing, and over-giving?
It’s not helping you get closer to the love you want.
It’s keeping you stuck in situationships, dead end relationships, and emotional confusion.
✨ The good news? You can break the pattern — I’ll show you how. ✨
In Date like a mfin' dreamboat,
you'll learn to:
💕 put the right amount of energy and effort into dating 💕
(no more exhausting yourself for the wrong person)
💕 recognize the value you bring to a relationship 💕
💕 calm the urgency and anxiety you feel when dating 💕
💕 know and stand up for what you actually want in a partner 💕
💕 set and hold healthy dating boundaries 💕
As a result, you'll stop falling for deadbeat dates (or keeping them around way past their expiry date).
They'll stop getting away with just being charming and making you feel like you've found your person, when really they're just farting fake-future talk your way. 🦨💨
And then—
you'll actually have space (and energy!)
to find your actual-total-effing-dreamboat partner
—someone who will actually pull their weight, make you breakfast, hold you when you cry, go deep with you, and cook you soup when you're sick.
Imagine.
In Date like a mfin' dreamboat,
you'll learn the sweet spot dating method:
💕 Fix your picker 💕
-spot dreamboats in a sea of deadbeat dates
-stop falling for the superficial stuff that leads to situationships
💕 Find your Sweet Spot 💕
-put the just-right amount of energy and effort into dating (this prevents burnout and filters out deadbeats)
-learn to date with calm, clarity, and intention, so you can find your dream person
💕 Heal your anxiety/insecurity 💕
heal the part of you that dates for validation instead of true connection
💕 Set super-hot boundaries 💕
...the kind that filter in dream partners, and keep out the ones who aren't ready for what you want
~Breathe a sigh of relief~
~Breathe a sigh of relief~
💕 no more settling for people who barely respond to your texts 💕
💕 find someone who loves you for you, not all the chores and emotional contortionism you do for them 💕
💕 know and truly feel that you are enough and worthy of love 💕
💕
find a partner who wants what you want (no more begging for commitment)
💕
💕 get your needs met instead of trying to pretend you don't have any
💕
Let's effing do this!
✨ 8 weeks to transform how you date ✨
October 23 - December 11, 2024
Wednesdays, 7 - 8:30pm EST
on Zoom
$550 for 8 90-minute sessions
Themes:
Dating mistakes & how to fix them
Healing & changing your dating patterns so you can choose better partners
Understanding what you really want and need
How to find your dream partner
Sweet Spot Dating Blueprint
Dating confidence
Self-care for your dating process
Recordings available if you can't attend every session.
you bring so much love and value to your relationships—
find someone who's worthy of it
You deserve someone who will bring you the same kind of love and effort you put in.
Not everyone will.
So far, you've been falling for chemistry, promises about some far-off future, or the blind, white-knuckle hope that maybe this is finally it.
But you've skipped the oh-so-crucial part where you evaluate whether or not they're actually dream partner material.
It's not your fault you've missed that part—
nobody taught you how to date in a way that helps you suss out who's going to show up for you for real and who's going to future-fake their way into your heart but leave you mega anxious because they just never seem to follow through. 💔
Until now...
it was never about how hard you worked,
but learning how to recognize your own worth and knowing how to spot a dreamboat in a sea of deadbeat dates.
This is what you'll do in
🛥️ Date like a MFin' Dreamboat 🛥️
That lack of questioning, of understanding whether or not someone is dream partner material, is what's keeping you stuck with people who are non-committal or don't put in much effort.
It keeps you in unbalanced dynamics where you do all the work but don't have any real say in your relationship. 😩
If you want a deep, fulfilling partnership,
you need to learn how to choose the right person.
Just because they're hot,
made vague promises about the future,
and know how to charm your pants off—
❌ doesn't mean they're going to be a great partner. ❌
(sorry, not sorry)
Even if there’s attraction and chemistry,
there’s so much more you need to know to see if it’s worth pursuing a long-term relationship.
All aboard the dreamboat
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