✨ anxious babes unite! ✨ choose better, healthier partners ✨ date more calmly, so you can create the best relationship of your life ✨ fix your "picker" ✨
Stop settling for situationships & deadbeat dates 💔
—so you can find the actual love of your life instead 💖
Even if you're anxious, insecure, or have a history of making "bad picks"—I've got you.
Group program starting soon—get on the list!
Stop settling for situationships & deadbeat dates
—so you can find the actual love of your life instead
Even if you're anxious, insecure, or have a history of making "bad picks"—I've got you.
This you?
You want to be in a f*cking dreamy relationship, but you keep ending up in situationships, or with people who aren't great for you.
You work hard—maybe a little too hard, if we're being honest—
to convince dates of your worth.
You let your boundaries get crossed by a date or partner
because you think that's what will keep them interested (hello, getting physical before you actually feel comfortable).
You want to believe love is possible for you, but tbh, you're kind of done with getting ghosted by people who seemed really into you and then slow faded (while you got more and more anxious 💔).
i get it, because i've been there.
It's so normal for women and femme folks to learn that they need to work hard to be in a relationship.
to believe that they need to prove their worth for someone to "choose" them and commit.
So once someone shows any kind of interest in you, you think it's on you to do everything you can to keep them around.
You just want to be chosen and be in a relationship, so you don't stop to question whether or not they're actually good for you and want what you want.
Whether they're actually dream partner material and want to build a life with you.
Whether they'll go the extra mile and be there for you when you need them the most.
That lack of questioning, of understanding whether or not someone is dream partner material, is what's keeping you stuck with people who are non-committal or don't put in much effort.
It keeps you in unbalanced dynamics where you do all the work but don't have any real say in your relationship. 😩
If you want a deep, fulfilling partnership,
you need to learn how to choose the right person.
Just because they're hot,
made vague promises about the future,
and know how to charm your pants off—
❌ doesn't mean they're going to be a great partner. ❌
(sorry, not sorry)
Just because they're hot,
made vague promises about the future,
and know how to charm your pants off—
❌ doesn't mean they're going to be a great partner. ❌
(sorry, not sorry)
Even if there’s attraction and chemistry,
there’s so much more you need to know to see if it’s worth pursuing a long-term relationship.
✨ let me show you how ✨
Date like a MFin'
Dreamboat 🛥️
Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.
You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life by:
fixing your "picker"
cutting through the superficial hype of a hot date
️🔥Hot Boundaries🔥
Coming soon.
Boundaries for good anxious folks.
You learned to earn love and approval by dimming your light, making yourself smaller, and pretending you don't have needs or desires.
And that's exactly why you keep ending up anxious and disappointed when your partner or date treats you like sh*t, doesn't put in half the effort you do, or crosses your boundaries (you know, the ones you wish you could stand up for).
But don't worry—you can whip your boundaries (and love life) into shape if you sign up for 🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥, stat!
Love Notes
a.k.a. the blog
Start here if you have no idea how you ended up here, with no clue how to date without getting chewed up and spit out by the apps and/or all the creeps out there.Let this be the start of a beautiful relationship.
Date like a MFin'
Dreamboat 🛥️
Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.
You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life.
️🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥
Mini-course coming soon.
Boundaries for good anxious girls, boys, and everyone else.
You learned to earn love and approval by dimming your light, making yourself smaller, and pretending you don't have needs or desires.
And that's exactly why you keep ending up anxious and disappointed when your partner or date treats you like sh*t, doesn't put in half the effort you do, or crosses your boundaries (you know, the ones you wish you could stand up for).
But don't worry—you can whip your boundaries (and love life) into shape if you sign up for 🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥, stat!
Love Notes
a.k.a. the blog
Start here if you have no idea how you ended up here, with no clue how to date without getting chewed up and spit out by the apps and/or all the creeps out there.Let this be the start of a beautiful relationship.
this is the place to:
Ditch dating
anxiety.
Avoid situationships and deadbeat dates.
Find your person.
Build the most amazing relationship of your life.
this is the place to:
Ditch dating
anxiety.
Avoid situationships and deadbeat dates.
Find your person.
Build the most amazing relationship of your life.
If you want an I–can't-believe-this-is-real dream relationship,
You have to start with a solid foundation:
choosing the right person.
Let me show you how.
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